Under Construction

Healing and rebuilding my confidence has been slow and things don’t seem to be moving as fast as I need them to.

Emotionally, I still feel like utter shit but my energy levels have been insane. I’m restless, still not sleeping well. I’ve become increasingly confrontational and rebellious. I am running my mouth off and pushing boundaries at work. Still spending money I don’t have.

I am *aware*, which is something – but I am not in control which makes this so frustrating for me. I am trying so so hard to rein myself in.

I wish I had an off button.

The best I can do is to try and channel this reckless energy into productive things.

So, here’s where I am at – I have made a list which I have organised into three categories: started, not started and done:

Started:

  • Get braces
  • Remortgage my house,
  • Redecorate and rebuild hallway and stairs (floors, walls, ceiling and electrics)
  • Lose lots of weight
  • Find a boyfriend

Not Started:

  • Visit my best friend in Scotland for his Birthday
  • Finally paint something cool on that massive blank canvas

Done:

  • Get quotes for decorating and building works
  • Go out clubbing and have a nice time (don’t have a panic attack)
  • Go on a first date and have a nice time (don’t cancel on him)
  • Redecorate my front patio
  • Removal of ivy from the side of my house
  • Garden and driveway maintenance, removal of weeds etc.

I’ve missed loads of stuff off this list but it’s enough to show what I have been up to.

I am surprised myself by the number of projects I am juggling – and this doesn’t include what I do for work. My day job needs it’s own blog post but seriously, fuck that! I’ll end up getting more stressed about work if I write about it.

So yeah, I’m totally on a mission to change everything in my life.

I am mindful that this is all sounding very unhealthy, but I don’t know what else to do with myself right now.

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